What Does Being S.E.X.Y. Have to Do With Anything?

You know you want to be SEXY, so let me share with you how to be the most powerful sexy person on the planet. You will not need a pole for this one!


Stop the insanity of keeping your deepest desires hidden inside and go for it. If you get laughed at, so what. Laugh with them and go for it head-on! Fight your fears!

When you’re all about Solutions to all challenges, it will bring you Empowerment which creates the Xtraordinary You

Why are we so worried and afraid to step out of our comfort zone?
What is it that is holding you back?
Why do we care so much what others think of us?

I learned along time ago that people are either jealous of you and they want to hold you back or they admire your courage and strength and want to help you grow and be a part of it.

Do you like to dance, but you don’t feel you are a good enough dancer? You are out and the music is brilliant to your likings and under the table your feet are moving and you wish you could go out on the dance floor, but you won’t, in fear that others will laugh at you. You have no one to dance with. So What! Get out there and enjoy yourself. Change your mindset.

I use dancing a lot because that was one of my biggest enjoyments, but there was a time that I would only dance in my own home where no one could see me, until the evening came when I drew the line in stone and said, screw it, I am going dancing and I did it, all by myself and I got out on the dance floor with everyone else and I just smiled. Scared to death as my insides were shaking and I felt so nervous. You know that feeling that makes you feel sick inside, yea, that feeling. But I pushed myself to do it and I am so glad I did. You know what happened… people smiled back and others wanted to join me on the dance floor, so they did and we had a ball. Never again did my happy feet just dance under the table. I now have happy feet and a happy dancing soul. Why… because I changed my mindset to… WHO CARES!

Step one to being S.E.X.Y. Solutions!

Stop worrying what others will think, who cares. You only get to live this life once and if you keep inside your comfort zone, you will never grow and enjoy what there is to enjoy. What ever that is for you. Just do it!

Step two to being S.E.X.Y. Empowerment.

Are you thinking about taking on a new career but you are afraid that you won’t succeed?

It’s called fake it till you make it. Learn as you earn. Stop making sure everything is in place, just find like-minded people that have accomplished what you want to accomplish and jump into the ring of leaders. Change your environments. Go to meet-ups in your area. Search for leaders on the internet that you can grow from. Read Personal Development. No excuses why you can’t be everything you want to be.

Be held accountable-an important ingredient for success. Workout partner – it is huge. Team up with someone you enjoy speaking with and that just lights that fire under your bum and gets you going in a direction you’ve never gone before!

A good friend helped me one day a long time ago paint my small bathroom green and I kept saying, “I’m not sure about this.” Her reply….Do you Have Balls? My reply, as I stood up tall and proud, I said, “YES I have Balls, let’s do it!” And we did and I loved it. It’s nice to step out of your comfort zone. What was the worst thing that could have happened, I would have repainted… but instead I loved it, Thanks Jo-Jo!
Totally went out of my comfort zone and loved the results.

Step three to being S.E.X.Y. Xtraordinary

Believe that you have uniqueness about you and no one else can take that from you. You have that extra special something that others admire and wish they had it inside them. Show them what you’ve got! Stop living in the land of ‘The Was World’ and make it the land of ‘The ‘Now World’ for you. Don’t allow anything from your past to hold you back.

Step four to being S.E.X.Y. YOU

Only you have the power to believe in you. Once you have accepted that you are a fantastic, dynamic and an incredible being and you believe in yourself to be true and be real, then and only then can your passion shine through.
People will notice the new you. They will either celebrate with you or try to hold you back. You must choose at that point what is a more powerful journey for you to be on. Celebrate I hope, then tell the others, you love them, but you’ve got to go! And now you will grow as long as you are willing to do what it takes that others won’t do!
Be You! Build new relationships, you’re gonna piss some people off and others will love you, so what as long as you are not out to harm, you are harmless. What is it about you that makes you powerful? Mastermind with others that have similar interest.

How S.E.X.Y are you? Go to the mirror and say it out loud…. “I am damn SEXY!”

Welcome to the celebration of your life where all things are possible and just know I believe in you and I am here for you on this wonderful journey of Oz!

Live and Laugh while traveling on you journey and put on your best S.E.X. appeal!



16 Responses to “What Does Being S.E.X.Y. Have to Do With Anything?”

  1. Val Haderlie Says:

    Lyn-Dee, my friend, what a fun writer you are! And you write what we are all feeling. The universality of the way you talk about the problems AND the solutions make this applicable to so many. I look forward to reading more of your posts.

  2. Susan Davis Says:


    I am lovin this post! I had an experience just like you shared about dancing. I was at a business function alone and everyone was dani8ng and I wanted to dance so bad! I finally just said what the heck and went and danced by myself!

    I`m going to be SEXY!!!

    Live a Juicy Life!


  3. Michelle Shutter Says:

    Lyn-Dee, This is a wonderful post! What an inspiration you have given people with the S.E.X.Y acronym! Love it! Just think what people could accomplish if they would “dance like no one was watching”!


  4. Kimberly Castleberry Says:

    So many of our limitations are all in our heads! We have so much of our power inside of ourselves that we often forget that! We are powerful, beautiful and sexy beyond our wildest dreams! I absolutely love this acronym! You are S.E.X.Y without a doubt!

  5. Jacqueline Gates Says:

    This Goddess wishes to announce that she is Damn SEXY!!
    Thank you, Lyn-Dee, for the encouragement, support and abundance flowing through this post – I appreciate it more that I can say.
    Isn’t it funny how we seem to need Permission to step into our greatness?
    But once that Greatness is accepted and affirmed – there is no stopping us!
    Tally ho!
    Bliss and blessings,
    The Goddess known as Jacqui

  6. admin Says:

    You’re so right Jacqueline, you are Damn Sexy! And I am appreciate you and your drive to help others as well. Let’s stay connected and make the world a brighter place!


  7. admin Says:

    Hi Kimberly,

    Amen to all your comments! We are all SEXY … once we step out of out shells and comfort zones!

    Keep on dancing Kimberly, I love sharing the floor with you!


  8. admin Says:

    Hi Michele,

    I believe we can all dance together, the dance floor is big enough for everyone to join in!

    Thanks for being S.E.X.Y. You are powerful!


  9. admin Says:

    Hi Susan,

    After speaking with you, I enjoyed your go go juice! :O) You are so incredible and I am always here for you. Everyday is a new dance, so let’s learn the steps together and smile our way through and through!


  10. admin Says:

    Hi Val,

    We all need to laugh and take things more lightly to get through the hard times. Life is just one big test and I prefer to pass it without having a heart attack. I would like to help others do the same. :O) Always honored to inspire and you my friend are one hell of a creater as well. I look forward to masterminding with you!


  11. Val Wilcox Says:

    I love it, love it, love it!
    Absolutely right on the money. Reminds me of the book “What You Think of Me is None of My Business.” I especially love your title. :)

  12. admin Says:

    Thank you so much Val! You make me smile.:O) And getting to know you is such an honor! You have everything it takes to make it happen and I am here for you always!


  13. Sandy Abrams Says:

    Lyn-Dee this is a great post. Let me share something from the other side. Having had training in music and theater, I was a little bit (sometimes a lot) critical of people who would get up and be in a skit or sing if they were not really good or professional. One day I realized what I was doing and said to myself, “if that person cares enough to get up and perform just for the love of it, who am I to criticize?!” I WAS one of those that you were afraid of. Please everyone…allow yourself the joy of being who you really are and follow Lyn-Dee’s advice.

    Sandy Abrams
    Sandy Abrams´s last blog ..RESPONSIBLE FOR MY HEALTH? WHO ME? My ComLuv Profile

  14. admin Says:

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know it will help others see and feel that you should be present and ignore those that criticize others to be who they are!


  15. Beth Allen Says:

    This post is fantastic, dynamic & incredible….just as you are and just as I am! Thanks so much for this passion-filled post Lyn-Dee, I love it!

    I do find it interested that only women are responding so far….where are all the S.E.X.Y. men? ;)
    Beth Allen´s last blog ..The Power of Perseverance My ComLuv Profile

  16. admin Says:

    Thank you so much Beth. I don’t know where all the men are, but they will come.
    I am looking forward to connecting with you through the tribe community.


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