Take Charge by Defeating Your Inner Criticism

Whether we like to notice it or not, how we feel about ourselves plays a huge role in our every day lives. Lets face it, the more superior we consider ourselves to be the easier it is to overcome every day
challenges and objections. There is only one way to attack the negative aspects in our self-esteem, and the key is thru personal development. Once we are able to pinpoint our individual demons it will be easier to take on bigger and harder projects. Today’s
assignment is to increase our self worth and I will personally assist you with ways to guide you on the path to a positive attitude, with just a few short steps.

First things first, take a deep breath. Let’s start with learning how to face your fears. The simplest way to overcome your challenge is to grab the bull by the horns! Define your fear, what is it that you are deeply afraid of? Think of ways to move past it. For most this will be an uncomfortable task. If it were easy, not a single being would be afraid of anything! I’m sure looking back at how scary learning how to ride a bike might have been, or learning how to swim, even take your first steps didn’t seem easy, but for most of us, we have mastered all three! The only way to conquer our uncertainties is to figure out ways to defeat them, and that’s where we figure out how to step outside our comfort zone. Try to take on a new challenge every day. I assure you once you accomplish something that seems impossible to do, everything else will become trouble-free!

Secondly, start setting goals for yourself. There are two types of goals; long term and short-term goals. Start with writing all of your goals down that you are aiming to complete. Once your list has been
finalized, take a look at what you wish to accomplish and put a date you would like to see yourself having them achieved by. Try setting short-term goals, from this point till 6 months from today. Then analyze your long-term goals, anything 6 months and over. Jot down the steps that you will have to take underneath each goal and what you will do to rebuttal any obstacles that might interfere with completing your goals by the set date you have chosen. There are
different ways to visualize your goals better to help you stay on track. Try doing a dream board online or offline, those tend to help many successful people, along with our families. Make goal setting fun!
Always know that if there comes a time that you have to postpone a goal date, that’s okay! As long as you’re on the right track and you are doing your best, there is no wrong in resetting your completion date.

Last but not least, make laughter a priority. If you make a mistake along your journey, look as if it were a blooper on a movie! Forgive imperfection and focus on the positive and celebrate your small
victories and progression. Without mistakes no one could ever learn how to properly do something. There is no such thing as failure until you have completely given up without putting in everything you could
have. Make sure to always reward yourself when you succeed before moving along to your next task. Accept compliments others give you for your accomplishments without any justification, and if you don’t get any compliments, then reward yourself with one. You deserve it for all of your hard efforts.

Another thing is to surround yourself with successful and positive people, you will find yourself laughing and retaining more knowledge that you know what to do with! You only have one life to live, why not
make it shine and sparkle like the 4th of July! Remember, All your “can be’s” are just a step away from starting to happen! See you all at the top!

Suc-cesssss, Suc-cesssss, Suc-cesssss, WHOOOOoooooooo……. All Aboard, next stop… The positive exciting path for your journey… Destination-Ecstatically Successful!

 

2 Responses to “Take Charge by Defeating Your Inner Criticism”

  1. Cheryl Says:

    Thank you so much Lyn-Dee.
    You go girl, I am so very proud of you in more ways than you know.
    I wish the very best to you and your endevours.
    Best Wishes Always,
    Cheryl

  2. admin Says:

    Thanks Cheryl,

    I am glad this is helping you as well!

    {{hugs}}
    Lyn-Dee

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