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Sometimes, some people, just make you go hummmmmmmm…..
If you are following me on twitter you will notice that through out the day I randomly post different quotes that I find both meaningful and helpful that not only benefit my every day life but also have the ability to brighten someone else’s day. You never know what challenges someone can be facing at that very moment and it’s a wonderful feeling being able to touch someone’s heart with a reminder that they are not alone in any given situation.
There is one quote that I retweet, [RT] on a regular basis by Terry Josephson, “If you don’t appreciate it, you don’t deserve it.” And for this reason. Many people for one reason or another forget to acknowledge the smallest of things and take them for granted or fail to even see what has been done for them. No matter the simplicity of the action, whether it’s someone emptying your garbage, giving you a compliment, doing you a favor or even a surprise. Make sure you always recognize what you have been blessed with.
A perfect example is the other day I was walking into a restaurant and held the door open for a middle aged couple and their 2 children. I could have easily walked in first, but instead I waited an extra few seconds so the family can approach and pass me by. What stumped me is neither of the 4 said “Thank You”Human Nature). But then I remembered all the times I have held the door for others and it was appreciated. And I smiled and realized, I feel sorry for those that walk with their head in their ass and I’m grateful for those that just give that polite smile and say thanks! or even smiled at the gesture and the fact they looked passed me, not making any eye contact or acknowledging that I waited the extra few seconds to do something polite for them, (like I was suppose to hold the door for them, like a doorman or something…), this made me want to revisit that moment and not open the door for them at all. (
(pondering thought) And to teach their children not to appreciate the small things others do for them is a whole other story. (Clue-watch your actions when you are around others that you have great influence over).
When something so small can be overlooked, I can only imagine the bigger things in life are just another fly on the wall. I do believe there are many words that are overused on a daily basis, however, I don’t think “Thank you” falls into that category.
Take into consideration that people don’t have to pay you that compliment, they don’t have to go out of their way- not for you, or anyone. But when they choose to do so, make sure that you show appreciation for the act of kindness by saying “Thank you” or returning the favor in some way or another. Pay it Forward!
I guess the old saying will always carry on, “Do on to others as you wish they do on to you!”
If you come across something throughout your day that is as meaningful as a quote, or something that you find funny and appropriate, share your thoughts and what you have stumbled upon. You never know who needs the reminder, or more importantly.. the smile.
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This blog is dedicated to all of us that sometimes have a bad moment and take it out on others! Stop, think and remember, not everyone deserves your bad attitude! Smile…you’ll get through it easier, if you just smile…
(((hugs)))
Lyn-Dee
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March 24th, 2010 at 3:45 am
Lyn-Dee,
You are right on the money when you said do unto others as they would do unto you. It’s refreshing to see and hear people do the little things like open the doors for others. I do this often and have set the example for my kids to do this.
I most definitely agree about teaching the next generation how to be respective and appreciative.
Ken Pickard
The Network Dad
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March 24th, 2010 at 12:25 pm
Another great reminder Lyn-Dee!
You rose above the situation and showed your compassion for others, even though they were clue-less.
I fully agree with living by the Golden Rule! So simple and easy to remember. Thanks for a great share,
Val
March 24th, 2010 at 2:05 pm
Thank you so much Val,
Living by the Golden Rule will truly help others have a wonderful life. I have been very honored to get to know you and I know you do follow the Golden rule!
Thanks for being you and I am so happy we are connected.
Keep smiling sweet Val, you are amazing! :O)
{{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee
March 24th, 2010 at 2:08 pm
Hi Ken,
How true it is to teach our children to treat others nicely no matter how others respond to our kindness.
I will say to you, Thank you for holding the door open for others, it matters!
You’re the Best :O)
{{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee
March 24th, 2010 at 9:59 pm
Hi Lyn-Dee,
Yes appreciation is such an important thing. I always think back to the scene in “The Secret” with the guy and the gratitude rock…. I will have to get myself a gratitude something… don’t think a rock will do as my son is obsessed with rocks! Maybe a gratitude bracelet (good excuse to buy some jewellery at least!). Thank you for this meaningful post and you are very much appreciated!
Thankyou
Blessings
Yamuna Keller
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March 24th, 2010 at 10:13 pm
What a powerful post. I really think that this is a major problem with a lot of people. Do you want to have a great day. Show appreciation to others daily and you can’t help but have a GREAT DAY!
Bill
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March 24th, 2010 at 10:57 pm
Hi Bill,
How true. We should all appreciate others and even the smallest justers should never be overlooked or taken for granted.
Bill, you have a wonderful, giving spirit and for that I will say thank you for all those that don’t appreciate you! I surely do!:O)
{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee
March 24th, 2010 at 10:59 pm
Hi Yamuna,
You are so funny! Ok, no rock, I love your gratitude bracelet, that is something that you will cherish and remember what it symbolizes. I love it!
Thanks for your input, very powerful. :O)
{{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee
March 27th, 2010 at 6:11 pm
Lyn-Dee
Love this post. unfortunately I run into this kind of rudeness more and more everyday. I just don’t get it either! I would say that maybe it is the new generation but as you stated they were middle aged! – No excuse! Anyway – you are right you just have to laugh it off and go to the next “appreciative” person.
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March 28th, 2010 at 11:38 am
Hi Glyna,
Thanks for your input. It is so sad that we walk around with blinders on and don’t take time to appreciate the nice things that are done for us. I can’t wait to share with you a hat that i have created. I call it my Happy Hat and it has pins of different positive actions that people take and when I come across someone, anyone that is doing one of these things, I take the pin off my hat and give it to them along with a little red heart, so they can smile and know they have been appreciated! I had created this hat 3 days ago, and I am sad to say, I haven’t been able to give anyone a pin, (except my husband). I though it would be so easy to give these pins out, but you know what … to many of us are wearing blinders….
I am glad you are laughing and giving and when we do meet in person, I bet you will be receiving one of those pins. :O)
{{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee
March 30th, 2010 at 9:31 am
I guess the LORD had it right with the “Golden Rule” thing. It really works doesn’t it. Like your post Lyn-Dee
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March 30th, 2010 at 2:52 pm
It sure does Nelson. Love your energy and your action of playing by the golden rule. You Rock!
{{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee